discussion of male sexual strategies
From a sailor, rancher, corporate drone and somewhat of a big deal on a fairly irrelevant corner of the internet
Essays on sexual strategy and masculinity
Men haven’t had anything to help guide them, either through their own successes and failures, or through others. My life is an open book, and you can glean from it what you need to thrive in yours.
A little of what I had to do to get where I am is here. Take what you can use, leave the rest.
Videos and speaking engagements
Between being an alumni speaker at the 21 Convention, my YouTube channel, and the various podcasts and shows, an easier to digest library of content you can watch and listen to while on the move.
For a brief time, we took a regular thing and made it extra ordinary.
Blunt honesty that you won’t get from your social circles
It’s a common thing I hear from each and every client. They ask friends, family, girlfriends, wives. Each one of them will not tell them the truth. It’s not that they are lying, they either just don’t know, or they think that it’s better to keep everyone calm, rather than happy.
Screw that noise. I’m not a shrink, but I’ve got experience, mine along with thousands of other men.
Why isn’t your wife having sex with you when you do everything you’re supposed to?
You have a great job, a nice house, and are a good person. Why is it you’re having so much difficulty finding someone to share your life with?
You were hoping to, or about to get married. Why did she pull this stunt this close to the finish line? Aren’t I supposed to be the most important thing in her life?
If you’ve experienced it I guarantee I’ve heard it before, or been there myself. I’ve also seen what a hundred guys in your situation have done, and how it ended up for them.
Sometimes, guys need some honesty and a little certainty with the big decisions, especially when it comes to women.
“You are a man. You are the only creature on this planet fit to accomplish anything of worth. And because of that, the rest of the world will always try to twist your mind, or twist your arm; to force you, by deception or by threat of imprisonment, to accomplish their goals instead of your own. Learn to recognize when this is happening, and take back control of your life, so you can do the things that YOU want to do.” - HSP
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